Objectified!!!

Men objectify women all the time. Everyday. Every moment. The things we go through, the things I know you've gone through and the things you know I've gone through. We know we’re strong. We bend over backwards every opportunity we get. We place high stakes on a relationship. We put ourselves out there. We show case our vulnerabilities despite the risks, as we all know bearing our weaknesses is the only thing taking us forward. And when we fail, the world jeers and belittles us for making all the wrong choices. But we go back out into the game, again and again like a soldier, weary and tired, but still bound to his duty. So we consider falling in love a duty. So we are judged. For everything by everyone. It doesn't really matter who’s who.  Everybody’s daughters, sisters and mothers get judged. Sometimes, the tables are turned and they become their own adjudicators. We are analyzed and labeled because when it comes to the opposite sex, we all are the same, as if, and by matter of birth we share the same characteristics. We are not just the female gender but a separate group of gender, in entirety. So, what’s true for one is true for another as well. And isn't that better. Isn't that easier. Saves time. Men want to define us, as everything Elsa, we would make more sense then. Anything uncategorizable, indefinable is an anomaly Enticing and beguiling but an anomaly nonetheless.  So it is easier to tell us that we’re from Venus then find out where we actually rely. Understanding is time consuming and weak. It is the lazy man’s pursuit. After all, who has time to think or consider when you’re out making big $’s. So it is a lot easier to objectify. Makes life a hell of a lot easier for them, I suppose.